Minds

Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN): When your parents fail to respond enough to your emotional needs.

What Exactly Is Childhood Emotional Neglect?

Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN): When your parents fail to respond enough to your emotional needs. The negative effects last long into adulthood.

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This is by no means a comprehensive list of internalized toxic beliefs, but it’s a start. Keep fighting the good fight, friends.

What To Do When You Have Internalized Toxic Beliefs

This is by no means a comprehensive list of internalized toxic beliefs, but it’s a start. Keep fighting the good fight, friends.

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Happiness is not something we find, it’s something we create and cultivate within ourselves.

Happiness Is Not A Tangible Thing

Happiness is not a tangible thing that we can acquire and capture in a jar — it’s a practice that is shaped by our thoughts.

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A Santera Told My Future And Exposed My Deepest Fear​

Now and then, I think about what the santera revealed that day, how everything she told me comes true as the years go by.

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How Books And Media Helped Me Through A Depressive Episode

In a moment when I couldn’t write myself, it was the writing of others that brought me back from the brink of my depressive episode.

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Sometimes mindfulness doesn't always work. So I started doing something different: knitting.

Knitting As A Form Of Therapy

The wonderful thing about knitting is that it combines mindfulness with mindlessness. You have to concentrate, sure, but you can easily lose yourself.

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What Melanie didn’t know was that, due to a lifelong condition of facial paralysis, I physically couldn’t smile.

When You Literally Cannot Smile

I like the idea that a smile can stand in for polite or genuine words that are omitted, due to language barriers. Yet, I literally cannot smile.

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5 Things I Wish I’d Known In My Twenties

I’ll be 33 this year, and I’m proud to say I know myself much better as a thirty-something than I did as twenty-something.

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