Sex + Love

Queer cowboys getting it on successfully champions the notion of being man enough to take a man.

The more I told him that something hurt me, the more that he did it.

You can do it. I believe in you.

Can you be clean and sober and still engage kinkily?

You're 15 years old now. You're not a little girl anymore—even though you wish you were, just a little bit.

I want my kids to have an understanding of the truth of sex, the ins, the outs, the details no one wants to ask anyone—least of all their mom.

I have slept with three men in one day—one 24-hour period. While that may seem a lot to many, I saw that as only a few. I could've done more . . .

I was haggard, exhausted, and feeling hopeless. "When are my kids ever going to be normal?" I felt deep down it would never happen.