Maggie Tokuda-Hall

As feminists always on the search for allies, we do ourselves a disservice by using a term with only partial accuracy.

Who the fuck is the groom? Who cares, amirite! This is all about you. You’ve been dreaming about this day since you were a little girl, right? RIGHT? You haven’t? Shit. Start over again,

It's the most overtly sexual life choice I've ever made, and it's fun. I feel the urge to call someone, to tell them what I just did, to brag.

With the goal of period-ing like a goddamn champ, I decided to try the Diva Cup, and report back to you its various benefits. So. You’re welcome.

The body does not want an abortion, and subjects a woman to misery. But that may be a good thing.

You can do it. I believe in you.

And I am not one of those people who just plows through rough starts. I love to quit. If there's anything I'm super good at, it's bowing out.