Sex + Love

This felt dysfunctional. Who needs alcohol to have better sex? That’s ridiculous.

Is it better to be alone than to be in a miserable relationship?

Every John Hughes movie seemed to feature a pair of diamond earrings being gifted to the heroine or shared with the bad boy, like Bender at the end of The Breakfast Club. I failed to realize that I wasn't exactly in the same demographic as these rich valley girls and there aren't too many teenage boys in the East End of London with diamond buying money to burn... and if there are you should probably give them a wide berth. Drug dealer alert!

I don’t even like sharing a bowl of popcorn; why would I want to share a person?

The most important facet of any relationship is that everyone be treated with kindness and respect. Hierarchical terms do not accomplish that.

Is ghosting different in the world of online dating? I believe so.

I have to remind myself of this at least once a week. I have it written in three of my notebooks, actually. I am not a tease. I am still coping with my rape.

Cheating: Does knowing why a cheater cheats change anything?