Sex + Love

Unless I’ve asked for advice specifically (or you know me so well that I don’t have to ask), you don’t have the right to comment on my singledom.

It’s Not Your Right To Comment On My Singledom

Do I give you unsolicited advice on your marriage? Don't comment on my singledom.

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Taking care of yourself and conquering your people-pleasing ways doesn’t give you license to stop caring about other people’s feelings — especially your partner’s.

Is Your People Pleasing Personality Killing Your Relationship?

The problem with people pleasing: You’re trying so hard to be good. So how come you feel so bad?

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When I think about why none of my relationships ever seem to work out, the elephant in the room is my mental illness.

Mental Illness Doesn’t Mean You’re Too ‘Broken’ To Be In A Relationship

The elephant in the room is my mental illness. Do my anxiety and depression make me unworthy of love?

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From The Wet Reindeer to The Open Sleigh, here are the best sex positions for holiday quickies!

The Best Sex Positions For Holiday Quickies  

From The Wet Reindeer to The Open Sleigh, here are a few recommendations for the best sex positions for a quick shag session amidst the holiday hype.

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This reappearing act has been coined “Submarining."

Submarining? No Thanks, I’d Rather Be Ghosted!

Submarining can occur weeks, months or even years after the initial ghosting has taken place.

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Photo of the author and her husband (who is not an asshole) on their wedding day.

My Name Is Briana And I'm A Recovered A**hole Chaser

The first tenet is absolutely no flirting. You don’t scare away a guy by showing him that a fat girl dares to think she has a chance with him.

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As a sex worker, consent is complicated

I Am A Sex Worker And Consent Is Complicated

I have a choice here: either I tell him to stop, or I can avert his hands elsewhere. This is my life as a sex worker. Consent is complicated!

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Image courtesy of Lauren Crew

If I Were SZA's Sex Coach

SZA’s confessional style is what really got me hooked and why her lyrics resonate with so many people. She shares feelings we all have about sex and dating.

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