Sex + Love

The best way I know to feel better when I’m low is to scrape up some gratitude.(Photo by Neil Bates on Unsplash)

9 Things To Be Grateful For After A Breakup

Finding gratitude in the wake of a bad breakup isn’t easy. Here are a few things to focus on.

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I'm Never Going To Be A "Good" Polyamorous Person

“I’m never going to be a 'good' polyamorous person,” I confessed to my soon to be ex-boyfriend. He took my hand, eyes filled with compassion.

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Until last year, I believed there was some unwritten rule preventing me from buying jewelry for myself.

Can't Buy Me Love: Why I Stopped Waiting For Men To Buy Me Jewelry

Until last year, I believed there was some unwritten rule preventing me from buying jewelry for myself. I just have to wait till I find the right person, I thought.

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Will your partner cheat on you? Trust is the thing you’ve got. If your partner does cheat it's not because of you, but because of them.

Will Your Partner Cheat On You? Here Are 5 Reasons They Might

Will your partner cheat on you? Trust is the thing you’ve got. If your partner does cheat it's not because of you, but because of them.

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The Best Valentine’s Day Gifts To Give Someone You’re “Sort Of” Dating

If you’re going down the gift route, here’s a guide so you can pick up the best gift to give the person you’re “sort of” dating on Valentine’s Day.

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Stop saying toxic things. Your words have more power than you realize.

18 Toxic Things To Stop Saying To Your Partner In 2018

It’s never too late to resolve to have a better relationship. Remove these toxic things from your vocabulary in 2018.

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It took me a while to realize this because being in an abusive relationship was nothing like I had assumed abuse to feel like, but it was exactly what abuse looks like.

On Realizing You’re In An Abusive Relationship

It took me a while to realize I was in an abusive relationship. It was nothing like I'd assumed abuse to feel like, but was exactly what abuse looks like.

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"Is intercourse painful?" she asked.   "No, but it absorbs his anger and sadness. Maybe my vagina isn’t happy after all."

How My Vagina Broke Up With My Boyfriend

My vagina knew months before I did that we weren’t going to paddle off into the sunset together.

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