Sex + Love

I first found out about asexuality when I was 19. I was born without a sex drive and I’m not particularly interested in looking for a romantic relationship.

An open marriage released me from the prison sentence of blame and shame because I'd married a serial cheater. I don’t have to beg.

The good news is that we have a choice about how we respond to jealousy; it isn’t just a primal experience we have no control over.

I took out my phone, and with all my newfound self-worth and intentions inside me… I did it! I downloaded the app and prepared to use Tinder.

The breaks and the cracks and the places where we fall apart all hurt, but those are the places where the reinforcement happens. The breaks are a prerequisite for the repair.

In the beginning, she was like an infuriating specter I had to deal with. She wanted to stay friends with him. I put a kibosh on that.

Sexless marriage? Couples therapists estimate that around 20 percent of marriages are sexless. Don’t give up without giving these ideas a try.

I invited my husband to give me a g-spot orgasm. Let’s just say, he found it. I never asked him to even look before taking this class.