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The Difference Between High Standards And Unrealistic Expectations In Your Relationship

How can I know the difference between having high standards and unrealistic expectations in relationships? Where do I draw the line?

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Love, Alexi: The Breakup List

Recently it seems like everyone I know is going through a gut-wrenching, soul-crushing, devastating breakup. Here's my breakup list to help us all!

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When Divorce Breaks Up Friendships, Too

Why is it that when the fairy tale ends, people friendly with both parties so rarely maintain both connections? Divorce breaks up friendships, and that's hard

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Yes, men, even woke men, still say the most unbelievable things to us in bed.

Things Men Need To Stop Saying To Women In Bed

Yes, men, even woke men, still say the most unbelievable things to us in bed and most of the time, we don’t say anything back.

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I knew what I was doing was wrong. But that wasn’t what scared me.

I Had An Affair With A Married Man And I Don't Regret It

I knew Mark was married, I knew we shouldn’t have been alone together in his office, but I wanted to know what the kind of desire he spoke of having for me.

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I Confronted The Guy Who Ghosted Me. Here's What Happened

A year ago I’d never even heard of being ghosted, let alone had it happen to me.But earlier this year, for the first time in my life, I was ghosted.

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Why You Need To Stop Talking About Your Relationship

Is it possible that talking about your relationship less could actually be the key to making it better? Sometimes, stop talking and just let yourselves be.

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Love, Alexi: I Did It. I Got On Tinder 

I got on Tinder! I was now, officially on and it was like I had been sucked into a vortex and I couldn't get out. Wow. This place is a madhouse.

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