Culture

8 Things Strong, Secure, Stable Women Do WAY Differently

It’s not about being rude, demanding or loud, but more about maintaining a personal constitution that guides her through difficulties and shines a light of inspiration so bright that others can’t help but want to follow in her footsteps.

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We're Having A Girl

Unlike the many women who dance towards the pink sugarplum visions having a girl conjures, I wanted desperately to escape.

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White Feminists: Please Stop Using The Race Card

I never thought I’d have to say this, but white people: stop using the race card. I’m serious. I’m getting sick and tired of the movement I’ve dedicated my life to being used as your weapon. I’m onto you — I see what you’re doing.

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Rachel Dolezal, You're Not Black: An Essay On Deconstructing Race

"Taking on a culture is one thing. But taking on a phenotype in the name of solidarity is perverse."

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The Five Stages Of Grief After Finding People On Facebook

Don’t say the following: “Maybe they’ll remember me!” “I bet they would love to get a message from me!” “Contacting the popular kids while we are in our 30s is a fantastic idea and doesn’t look desperate at all!”

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Last Night, I Met “The Other Woman”

" Sure enough, the doorbell rang one early June day and there she was: curvy, seductive body, smooth black skin, bright blue eyes."

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"Let me explain: Jeremy isn't an ordinary man"

I Live In Constant Fear For My Safety

A woman shouldn’t need a man to protect her, but sadly I do.

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