Sex + Love

Help! How Do I Know If I Should Get Married?

I know I love my boyfriend and I think I’m ready to get married but how do I know if he’s the one I want to spend the rest of my life with?

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Gluten: A Story of Love, Loss, And Processed Carbohydrates

I like to think of Valentine’s Day as another evening on my couch with an assortment of cheeses and confusing sexual fantasies about Jamie Oliver.

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What My Parents Taught Me About Loving And Leaving—And Loving Again

Forgiveness is possible, and infidelity isn't the end of the world if you don't want it to be. I learned love is work, and it's ugly and it's messy.

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Confession: I'm A Straight Woman Who Gets Off On Lesbian Porn

Sexuality is fluid. And mine has led me from girl-on-girl action to a man inside me.

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Lamenting The One That (Sort Of) Got Away

There isn't a woman on earth that hasn't imagined the shimmering mirage of "The One," but I always felt it was some cruel myth. Until I met *John.

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The Dirty Little Secret Parents Are Hiding: We’re Actually Pretty Happy

People try to keep it real by talking about the struggles of being a parent, and that’s great, but the truth is this: Parenting can be great fun.

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Color Me Kinky: Military Uniform Fetish

In this mash-up of science and erotic fiction, we explore—and salute—the delectable servitude that is military uniform fetish.

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The Virtues Of A Lazy Marriage

Lower your standards, live in moderate amounts of filth, and go to bed early. The cat will thank you.

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