No Cate

I stand in the bathroom for six hours.

I’ve walked the line between visibly and invisibly disabled my entire life.

I used to ask the kids at school whether I would be white or black or brown if I didn't have red skin.

This labor, the work of being a female, has been our work so long that no one really knows what a truly equally yoked household looks like.

“Slow and steady wins the race.” It's a phrase I learned back when I was rocking pigtails and a Spice Girls sticker-book was my most prized possess

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What I do know is this, my kids and my partner are the things that bring me all my joy.

In this week’s #FurballFriday, we get a lesson in affirmative consent from a chihuahua, who could teach us all about setting boundaries.