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Still here. Still queer. Image: Liz Lazzara.

Dating A Man Doesn't Negate My Queerness

If you see me with my partner, you’ll more than likely think that I’m a straight girl in a heterosexual relationship — and there’s nothing I hate more. Being with a man seems to negate my sexuality, rendering it secret or private when I’m anything but.

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Still here. Still queer. Image: Liz Lazzara.

Dating A Man Doesn't Negate My Queerness

If you see me with my partner, you’ll more than likely think that I’m a straight girl in a heterosexual relationship — and there’s nothing I hate more. Being with a man seems to negate my sexuality, rendering it secret or private when I’m anything but.

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WAY better than true love.

Is Monogamy Over? What This Means For The 21st Century Woman

The most recent issue of Time features a cover with twenty-one shadowed question marks scattered under the headline: “Is Monogamy Over?”

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That Time I Dated A Married Couple

It's the most overtly sexual life choice I've ever made, and it's fun. I feel the urge to call someone, to tell them what I just did, to brag.

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Getting Old Just Got Awesome: Sex Gets Better After 50 Years Of Marriage

A new paper says married sex after 50 is a serious upgrade from the 20-something hot-but-confusing dating malaise.

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Why My Longterm Relationship With Singledom Is Just Fine

I’m a firm believer in calling something what it is. In that vein, I readily identify myself as perma-single.

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Infanticide: A-OK In Nature!

Apparently in the animal kingdom, killing tots can carry an evolutionary benefit.

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At What Point In A Relationship Should You Have Sex? The Experts Weigh In . . .

Getting it on quickly doesn't necessarily translate to getting love quickly.

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