infidelity

In the past four months, I’ve undergone a veritable dating hurricane. I ran out on my 10-month-old marriage in August. I texted my decision and departure to my closest friends, live-tweeted my flight from upstate New York to the New Hampshire seacoast, and have written extensively and publicly about separation, my estranged husband, and the terrors of emotional pain ever since.

Nothing is private. Not online. Not now. Not anymore.

Do lesbians fall for women who are married to men? All the time! And if that's you, be prepared for things to get hard.

Ashley Madison does exist. And it does, in fact, serve, not only the regular old schmo, but additionally, the business traveler seeking engagement in a particular location, and also pretty much any other combination of gender/relationship status.

All of the men I met were married, and wanted to stay married. They said they loved their wives, and most said they were happy; yet the sex at home had diminished and they were men after all and needed their desire fulfilled. Besides the eye-rolling common excuse for infidelity, I believed they were telling the truth about loving their wives.

Was it worth it? Decide for yourself.

Lower your standards, live in moderate amounts of filth, and go to bed early. The cat will thank you.

Reportedly, women and men have different views on sexual vs. emotional affairs. Let the dubious evolutionary theorizing begin.