relationship advice

Four methods to get healing.

There isn’t a list of things that these couples do differently. There’s one difficult thing they choose to accept.

Being emotionally available is not that easy for any of us. And for a man in a society where we give our such mixed messages, it’s no surprise that both the people asking men to be emotionally available and the men who are trying to achieve it, are confused.

We often do not see silence as being hurtful. We see the one in the partnership who is leaning back as the one who is keeping his or her cool, when in all reality this escalates things equally.

Humans crave relationships. It nourishes us. We degenerate in its absence. If we want a great relationship, we have to build it. Just like we build our homes.

As a society we often confuse sex and love; however, being great at love is much more than being great at sex. The fact is that relationships based solely on physical beauty and sex rarely last, because the relationship isn’t rooted in anything that endures.

The phrase “I need my space” is certainly better than blowing up or giving the silent treatment. But is saying that doing your relationship a favor at that moment? What do we learn when we walk away?