Friends

Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez

Ask Erin: How Can I Set Boundaries With My Online Friend?

Why do we have a hard time with boundaries? Many of us, especially women, were raised to be people-pleasers and caregivers.

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Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez

Ask Erin: How Do I Tell My Friends With Kids To Back Off?

My friends with kids seem to think I'm fair game for blow-by-blow plays about the tiniest details of their day for hours at a time.

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Even if she suspects he is cheating, it’s not good news that you are sharing. There are so many factors to consider.

To Tell Or Not To Tell: When Your Friend’s Husband Is Cheating

Even if she suspects he is cheating, it’s not good news that you are sharing. There are so many factors to consider.

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image credit: Virgie Tovar via Instagram

Take The Cake: Doing Friendsgiving Is A Radical Act For Me

What horrible thing is going to happen this year? Is my aunt going to touch me or someone else inappropriately or make sexual innuendo? What terrible thing is my mother going to say to my aunt about her internet boyfriend who steals chicken from my grandparents’ garage freezer in the middle of the night?

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The truth was that going to a group therapy session once a week for eight weeks sounded like a nightmare.

Why I’m Glad I Went To Group Therapy, Even Though I Was Terrified

The truth was that going to a group therapy session once a week for eight weeks sounded like a nightmare. In the end, I'm so glad I went!

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So my ask to all of the people out there who are married, engaged, or in a relationship, please stop asking us single people to do these four things.

Please Stop Torturing Your Single Friend

So my ask to all of the people out there who are married, engaged, or in a relationship, please stop asking us single people to do these four things.

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(Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: How Do I Deal With Friends Who Are ALWAYS Late?

My husband and I are good friends with another couple. We love them dearly, but they have no concept of time. Our friends are always late!

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“Oh honey, you’re doing great. I know, I’ve been there. And we’re going to get you through this.”

Mothers In Medicine Made My PPD Bearable

Mothers in the medical field got me into support groups, onto meds, and back into life again. I am so grateful for mothers in medicine.

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