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I hadn't been called "Ma'am" by someone I was dating until I moved to the South.

Southern Hospitality: Sex & Dating In The South

This California girl has been living down South and enjoying all of its southern hospitality. It’s been an interesting experience, to say the least.

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Liar liar college education on fire.

College Educated? You Might Be More Likely To Cheat.

Today in News You Really Cannot Use: Folks with a college education are more likely to have an affair. 

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Me telling a boy “no” should be the end of the discussion.

No, I’m Not A Tease; I’m Still Coping With My Rape

I have to remind myself of this at least once a week. I have it written in three of my notebooks, actually. I am not a tease. I am still coping with my rape.

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I’m here alone. I’m free and clear of all attachments.

Learning To Love The Grey: Leaving Behind The Ghosts Of Loves Past In New Orleans

Loving means giving up control. Releasing something to the universe. It’s not prescriptive. There is no place for black and white in love. It’s the ultimate grey.

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"Get clear with yourself about what is important to you. And the fastest way to do that is to spend some time with yourself, not distracted by the romantic partner in front of you."

Ask Erin: Should I Be Worried About Hooking Up With A Younger Guy?

She’s made all the mistakes, so you don’t have to… Ask Erin is a weekly advice column, in which Erin answers your burning questions about anything at all.

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 I was excited! This was wild! No one could accuse me of playing it safe anymore!

On Learning To Take Leaps For Love

I was convinced that by taking a leap so out of character — so spontaneous and unexpected — I had changed the very trajectory of my love life.

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