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This article by Una Dabiero first appeared on Fairygodboss and has been republished with permission. 

You spend hours with your colleagues at work — usually more time than you spend at home. And when you’re in such close quarters with people, you’re just bound to find a few of them annoying sooner or later. But when someone’s behavior is really bothering you (or even the people around you), is it really worth it to bring it up?

Just over a year ago, a guy my age came to join my team. We instantly clicked and became great friends. Should I tell my colleague I'm in love with him?

It was a one night stand, I don’t have any feelings for him, and she’s not a really close friend. Do I tell my coworker that I slept with her boyfriend?