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I know it’s not fair for me to compare two very different people, so how do I stop comparing my new girlfriend to my Ex? Help!

I feel like this is cheating — having feelings for him, so I feel bad. I have thought about ending things with my boyfriend. Am I an emotional cheater?

How in the world do I go about letting him know that he was exchanging dirty pics with someone who is not a stranger after all? I saw his junk!

Is sexting cheating? I've been with my boyfriend a little under a year. He refuses to acknowledge what he did as cheating.

I am the "advice columnist" of my friends' group. How much helping is too much helping? Should I stop giving unsolicited advice?

I am unable to physically show any signs of anger — I’m too scared, too well-trained not to. I need to know how to express anger after sexual abuse.

I’m dating a guy, but I like a girl. I know that this seems very odd and is an awkward situation, but do you have any advice for my dilemma?

Her parents, more specifically her mother, seem to have these microaggressions towards our relationship and I don’t know how to handle it. Am I overreacting?