Sex + Love

HeadSpaces is a column featuring the clever minds of psychologists Dr. Rachel Kozlowski and Dr. Naomi Ben-Ami discussing modern romance.

Oh, here's a brilliant newsflash: If we don't want to be objectified by men, we shouldn't do it to them. Imagine that.

Three days prior to Christmas 2009 and 11 weeks into the pregnancy, my wife and I lost our baby.

Yes, it is possible to be horny all the time. And, apparently, it's not a good thing.

Surviving the Apocalypse didn’t mean they couldn’t enjoy a little romance.

People frequently ask if my wife knew I was gay when she married me. The answer is a bit more complicated than a simple yes or no.

I've cried on subways from Toronto to New York. I cried bombing an interview, going to a party that I didn’t want or because my sweater was itchy.

Color Me Kinky is a collaboration of fact and fiction, an intersection of fetish, fantasy and psychology.