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My Feminist Fails

I’m not a perfect feminist, which is consistent with my status as not being a perfect anything.

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How To Keep Everyone At Arm’s Length And Never Enjoy An Authentic Human Connection: An Essential Guide

If you're trying to avoid a balanced life filled with real connections with others, I'm here to let you know—you too can realize this fantasy!

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Your Guide To Non-Oppressive BDSM

I wanted to create guidelines for myself about how to navigate non-oppressive BDSM that I hope would be helpful for other marginalized subs.

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Color Me Kinky: Sploshing (Food Fetish)

Also known as Wet And Messy (WAM), this fetish is nothing short of a multisensory extravaganza.

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10 Reasons Why Christian Men Should Not Marry Me

In response to "10 Women Christian Men Should Not Marry," I bring you my own helpful list . . .

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When Self-Destruction Meets Writerly Self-Doubt: A Book Review Of Women

Chloe Caldwell writes in such an honest way that Women reads like a journal entry.

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Turns Out Weddings Have Nothing To Do With Marriage—And Other Matrimonial Thoughts 

I want to lie belly-down with someone in life's trenches. To do the work. To stand up, however sheepishly, and say: I don't want to go it alone.

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