Dakota Kim is a freelance writer and editor. She is often found dissecting a Kdrama love triangle while making killer five-spice popcorn. Tweet her at @dakotakim1.
When a Tinder lover ghosted me cold after a month, I fell into a deep depression. There was no accountability in the digital dating world, where you had zero real-world mutual friends to tie you together.
I logged onto Facebook and asked my friend network, “Would you date someone who has a good job, but zero retirement savings?” The response was deafening.