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A month or two ago I read an article on possible asexuality signs, and I fit most of them. I think I'm asexual but my family thinks I'm gay.

My friend lies and uses any available information to insult people to their faces or smear them to others to drive wedges between people. I can't trust her!

In short: what's a girl supposed to do? How can I be a supportive of my cheating best friend while not supporting her actions?

I had no expectations beyond what happened, a one-night stand with a co-worker. How do I manage having to stay in contact and keep things professional?

I don't know if I should continue the friendship and accept my friend's apology for sexually assaulting me. I am still getting flashbacks and depression.

I have been with my husband for years. Porn has never been an issue. One night we watched it and now my husband is mad that I don't want to watch porn.

I don't want to make my friend choose between me and her boyfriend. Yet, I think their relationship is deeply unhealthy and I worry about her.

I don't trust my husband. He had a years-long emotional affair that I ended up having to squash within this first week of our being married.